By Dr. John Hogan CHE CHA MHS
November 26, 2008
| Both abundance and lack exist simultaneously in our lives, as parallel
realities. It is always our conscious choice which secret garden we will
tend... when we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but
are grateful for the abundance that's present -- love, health, family,
friends, work, the joys of nature and personal pursuits that bring us pleasure
-- the wasteland of illusion falls away and we experience Heaven on earth.
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We are currently facing a global economic crisis and there is little
in the news that offers short term relief. Even the drop in oil prices
and gasoline costs is somewhat offset by other economic indicators.
We know that the hospitality industry is resilient, overall in strong operating
posture and that we will return to success but these remain trying times.
We are all often barraged with emails that are parts of a chain of frequently
confusing messages. I do not ever forward them along, but like CBS
television’s Andy Rooney, I do find some of them amusing. I also
find others reflective and I am sharing this in a holiday week that is
celebrated in the US. I do not know the author as the message
was passed along to me in an anonymous chain email, but there is some sound
advice in the words. Implement those that you can.
1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you
walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock
if you have to.
3. Buy a DVD tape your late night shows and get more sleep.
4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement,
'My purpose is to__________ _ today.'
5. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
6. Play more games and read more books than you did this year.
7. Make time to pray, practice meditation, yoga, and Tai chi.
They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the
age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less
food that is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, wild
Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds & walnuts.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Clear your clutter from your house, your car, your desk and
let new and flowing energy into your life.
14. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires,
issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead
invest your energy in the positive present moment.
15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like
algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner
like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.
17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away.
18. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what
their journey is all about.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five
years, will this matter?'
26. Forgive everyone for everything.
27. What other people think of you is none of your business.
28. GOD CAN heal everything - it's up to Her or Him though, if
S/He will. Whatever or whoever you believe God is
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
30. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends
will. Stay in touch.
31. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
32. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
33. The best is yet to come.
34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
35. Do the right thing!
36. Call your family often.
37. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements:
'I am thankful for __________.' Today I accomplished _________.
38. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
39. Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and
you certainly don't want a fast pass.
We only have one ride through life so we need to make the most of it and
enjoy the ride. Give these thoughts consideration and share
those that make sense with your family and friends.
May your troubles be less,
May your blessings be more,
May nothing but happiness come through your door!
Giving thanks – and not just one day each year!
We all celebrate a sense of thanks-giving in different ways at different
times around the world. I wish you and yours a special season
on the occasion of the US Thanksgiving later this week.
Feel free to share an idea at johnjhogan@yahoo.com
anytime or contact me regarding consulting, customized workshops or speaking
engagements. Autographed copies of LESSONS FROM THE FIELD – a COMMON
SENSE APPROACH TO EFFECTIVE HOTEL SALES can be obtained from THE ROOMS
CHRONICLE www.roomschronicle.com and other industry sources.
All rights reserved by John Hogan. This column may be included
in an upcoming book on hotel management.
John
Hogan’s professional experience includes over 35 years in hotel operations,
food & beverage, sales & marketing, training, management development
and asset management on both a single and multi-property basis. He
holds a number of industry certifications and is a past recipient of the
American Hotel & Lodging Association’s Pearson Award for Excellence
in Lodging Journalism, as well as operational and marketing awards from
international brands. He has served as President of both city and
state hotel associations.
John’s background includes teaching college level courses
as an adjunct professor at three different colleges and universities over
a 20 year period, while managing with Sheraton, Hilton, Omni and independent
hotels. He was the principal in an independent training & consulting
group for more than 12 years serving associations, management groups, convention
& visitors’ bureaus, academic institutions and as an expert witness.
He joined Best Western International in spring of 2000, where over the
next 8 years he created and developed a blended learning system as the
Director of Education & Cultural Diversity for the world’s largest
hotel chain.
He has served on several industry boards that deal with
education and/or cultural diversity and as brand liaison to the NAACP and
the Asian American Hotel Owners’ Association with his ongoing involvement
in the Certified Hotel Owner program. He has conducted an estimated
3,100 workshops and seminars in his career. He served as senior vice
president for a client in a specialty hotel brand for six years.
He has published more than 350 articles & columns
on the hotel industry and is co-author (with Howard Feiertag, CHA CMP)
of LESSONS FROM THE FIELD – a COMMON SENSE APPROACH TO EFFECTIVE HOTEL
SALES, which is available from a range of industry sources and AMAZON.com.
He resides in Phoenix, Arizona and is finalizing his 2nd book based on
his dissertation – The Top 100 People of All Time
Who Most Dramatically Affected the Hotel Industry.
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